Child Custody
Separating Without Alignment or 3rd Party Drama – Putting Your Family and Friends in Check
I recently saw a social media message one parent sent to their closest family and friends about their ex-spouse which was very encouraging that I wanted to share. It read as follows: “Dear Family and Friends, As you may know (Ex) and I recently separated. We decided it was for the best, and hope you…
Read MoreSchool Function Event Considerations for Parents
Clearly defined timesharing schedules are heavily favored in family court. Such schedules help children acclimate to transitions between parents, and develop stability. However, lately we have seen a large influx of timesharing issues revolving around school functions and sports. Planning for these events in advance and good co-parenting skills can really help lower the stress…
Read MoreProper Courtroom Etiquette
It should always be the goal of attorneys and parties in a domestic matter to resolve things outside of the courtroom; however, when efforts to negotiate fail or where one party needs to seek some form of emergency relief, it may be necessary to access the judicial system in order to get the matter resolved. The…
Read MoreWhen Going Through a Divorce Focus on the Long Run Decisions
When going through a divorce case it is extremely easy to get wrapped up in the conflict with your spouse, and engage in every little skirmish. Throughout the case you will have to constantly weigh how important issues are to you, and whether you want litigate or mediate those issues. These fights can be extremely costly…
Read MoreDon’t Take the Bait! – Speaking with Your Children About the Details of Your Divorce Case
How children process your divorce, and whether they have scars as a result of the divorce are things that you can help control. Child custody research shows that conflict among parents is incredibly harmful to children. Not the physical separation between parents, but the actual conflict. Perhaps your spouse is telling the children about the…
Read More5 Simple Steps to Keep the Holidays Special for your Children After Divorce
Holidays are often filled with joy and excitement for children but can also be a source of pain and sadness when the family is no longer together. Navigating two households during the holidays requires adults to put their own feelings aside and focus on the children first. Here are five simple steps to assist in…
Read MoreShould You Hire A Male or Female Attorney?
We get this question a lot from potential clients. Possibly because in family law people believe there may be biases associated with various genders or gender roles. “If she has a female attorney I need a female attorney too, or vice-versa.” In my experience the decision whether to hire a male or female attorney should…
Read MoreCommunicating With 3rd Parties About Your Case
Family law cases can be stressful, and it is extremely common to vent about such frustrations to family members, friends, significant others, co-workers, etcetera. However, we would recommend that you exercise caution, and remember the following before doing so: Your communications are not protected under the attorney-client privilege. Only communications between you and your lawyer…
Read MoreIs the Juice Worth the Squeeze? – Picking and Choosing Your Battles in A Family Law Case
In a family law case it is always important to try and focus on your larger long term goals. By doing so you will achieve more favorable results in the long run, and avoid unnecessary skirmishes along the way. You will also avoid more conflict with the opposing party. This will not only save you…
Read MoreDating before Your Divorce is Finalized
It happened. You or your spouse decided it is time to go your separate ways and you are ready to move on. You suddenly realize you have so much to do now. Time to update your Facebook relationship status, change your profile picture create a bumble account, swipe left and right for hours on end,…
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