Divorce and Social Security: What You Need to Know!

by Susan A. Moussi, CPA, CFP®, CDFA Social Security benefits are in a constant state of flux; eligibilities and rules are always changing, and the rules are complex. Fortunately, there are professionals who specialize in Social Security benefits exclusively and maintain knowledge of the changes and eligibility requirements. I provide my clients with information through…

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Divorce and Social Media: Why You Should Stop Posting and Logout

For the majority of people, social media has become a daily part of our lives. Keeping in touch with friends, posting pictures of your children, and watching the latest trending video have never been easier, but did you ever stop and think about how social media can play a role in your divorce? It’s very…

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The Appeals Process-from Chapter 16-Divorce in New Mexico

You may find that despite your best efforts to settle your case, your divorce went to trial and the judge made major decisions that will have a serious impact on your future.   You may be either gravely disappointed or even shocked by the judge’s ruling. The judge might have seen your case differently than…

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Benefits: Insurance, Retirement, and Pensions-from Chapter 12-Divorce in New Mexico

During your marriage, you might have taken certain employment benefits for granted. You might not have given much thought each month to having insurance through your spouse’s work. When you find yourself in a divorce, suddenly these benefits come to the forefront of your mind.You might also, even unconsciously, have seen your own employment retirement…

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Center Offers Support for Grieving Children, Families

By Ali Stratton / Journal Staff Writer Sunday, January 24th, 2016 at 12:02am ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. — Charlie Oldfield snuggled up on the couch next to his mother one night in March 2012. When he woke the next morning, she felt cold. He tried to wake her, but she wouldn’t wake up. His mother, Miriam, had…

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The Discovery Process-from Chapter 5-Divorce in New Mexico

Discovery is one of the least talked about steps in divorce, but it is often among the most important. Discovery is the pretrial phase in a lawsuit during which each party can obtain evidence from the opposing party. The purpose of discovery is to ensure that both you and your spouse have access to all…

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What steps are taken during the divorce process? from Chapter 1 Divorce in New Mexico

The steps taken to obtain a divorce in New Mexico typically include: • Obtain a referral for an attorney. • Schedule an appointment with an attorney. • Prepare questions and gather needed documents for the initial consultation. • Meet for the initial consultation with attorney. • Pay retainer to attorney and sign retainer agreement. • Provide…

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Congratulations to Jan Gilman-Tepper!

Jan was named the Outstanding Attorney of the Year 2015 by the Albuquerque Bar Association at the December Bar Luncheon at the Embassy Suites Hotel. Sandra Morgan Little introduced Jan at the event- “Jan has also been a fantastic partner.  I have practiced with Jan every day of my 37 year practice and Bobbie Batley…

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AAML Annual Meeting in Chicago November 4-7

Sandra Morgan Little and Roberta Batley attended the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers Annual Meeting in Chicago.  They attended continuing legal education seminars including national speakers on topics such as high asset and income cases, divorcing with special needs children, and domestic violence.  Sandi completed her term as Chair of the Collaborative Law Committee. In…

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Narcissistic Partner? How to manage or leave.

by Gary Direnfeld, MSW, RSW In my article, The Five Best Friends of the Abusive Man, I detail the strategies used by narcissists and sociopaths to manipulate their partners. That article received more comments than anything else I had written. I was castigated by some for attributing the abuse to men and I was praised by…

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